{"id":7465,"date":"2026-08-16T16:18:44","date_gmt":"2026-08-16T14:18:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/?p=7465"},"modified":"2026-08-16T16:22:06","modified_gmt":"2026-08-16T14:22:06","slug":"when-we-get-too-far-away-from-ourselves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/en\/spoznaje\/kad-se-previse-udaljimo-od-sebe\/","title":{"rendered":"When we get too far away from ourselves"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"7465\" class=\"elementor elementor-7465\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-59652800 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"59652800\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1044fcfb e-flex e-con-boxed elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1044fcfb\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;,&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-45456ffd elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-gum_heading\" data-id=\"45456ffd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;_animation_delay&quot;:200}\" data-widget_type=\"gum_heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"gum-widget-title\"><h2 class=\"section-main-title size-default\">When we get too far away from ourselves<\/h2><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d4027dc elementor-post-meta-divider-text elementor-widget__width-auto elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-gum_post_meta\" data-id=\"7d4027dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"gum_post_meta.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"posts-meta\"><li class=\"list-meta\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/en\/2026\/08\/16\/\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"\"><\/i><span class=\"meta-text\">August 16, 2026.<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"meta-divider\"><span>\/<\/span><\/li><li class=\"list-meta\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/en\/category\/spoznaje\/\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"\"><\/i><span class=\"meta-text\">Realizations<\/span><\/a><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2772460b e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2772460b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6b4c66cd e-con-full e-flex elementor-invisible e-con e-child\" data-id=\"6b4c66cd\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;animation&quot;:&quot;fadeIn&quot;,&quot;animation_delay&quot;:200}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3f23e892 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3f23e892\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">Kad radim sa klijentima, oni nerijetko dolaze iz okoline i primarnih odnosa u kojima nisu imali slobodu biti dijete, ve\u0107 su formirani kao funkcija emotivnog odr\u017eavanja nekog od roditelja. Kasnije ili postanu osobe koje udovoljavaju drugima da bi ostali povezani ili odu u drugi ekstrem pa misle isklju\u010divo na sebe ali nisu u mogu\u0107nosti povezati se kvalitetno. Ona na\u010dina \u017eivota dovode do frustracije jer nijedan od ovih polariteta ne \u017eivi zaista svoje potrebe, a time \u017eivot nije ispunjen.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Postoje situacije u kojima je sasvim prirodno uzeti u obzir druge ljude. \u017divimo jedni s drugima, na\u0161i se \u017eivoti dodiruju, odluke imaju posljedice, a dobar dio odnosa i zajedni\u010dkog \u017eivota po\u010diva upravo na sposobnosti da ponekad napravimo kompromis.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Problem nastaje kada kompromis prestane biti mjesto na kojem smo prona\u0161li dovoljno prostora i za sebe i za druge, a postane na\u010din na koji sebe malo-pomalo izbacujemo iz vlastitih odluka.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">To se rijetko dogodi odjednom.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Mo\u017eemo vrlo jasno znati \u0161to \u017eelimo. Imati plan, odluku, potrebu ili jednostavno osje\u0107aj da nam ne\u0161to odgovara. Onda o tome razgovaramo s ljudima oko sebe. Netko smatra da bismo trebali druga\u010dije. Netko se razo\u010dara. Netko se zabrine. Netko ima vlastitu ideju o tome \u0161to bi za nas bilo najbolje. Ponekad nitko \u010dak ni ne vr\u0161i stvarni pritisak na nas, dovoljno je da unaprijed znamo kakvu reakciju mo\u017eemo o\u010dekivati.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 class=\"p1\">Sumnja u sebe<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">Prvo malo.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Mo\u017eda promijenimo dio plana. Mo\u017eda ne\u0161to odgodimo. Mo\u017eda pristanemo na ne\u0161to \u0161to nismo \u017eeljeli jer nam se u tom trenutku \u010dini jednostavnije nego obja\u0161njavati za\u0161to ne \u017eelimo. Mo\u017eda svoju \u017eelju izgovorimo toliko ubla\u017eeno da druga osoba uop\u0107e ne shvati koliko nam je va\u017ena.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">A ponekad nakon dovoljno razgovora i sami po\u010dnemo druga\u010dije pri\u010dati o onome \u0161to smo \u017eeljeli. Netko energetski utje\u010de na nas.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 class=\"p1\">Ra\u010dvanje<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">Ono \u0161to nam je prije nekoliko dana bilo jasno sada odjednom ima stotinu problema. Po\u010dinjemo se pitati jesmo li dobro procijenili situaciju. Mo\u017eda ipak previ\u0161e tra\u017eimo. Mo\u017eda sada nije vrijeme. Mo\u017eda je druga osoba u pravu. Mo\u017eda bismo trebali biti razumniji. Sumnjamo.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">I naravno da ponekad zaista promijenimo mi\u0161ljenje. \u010cuti drugoga, vidjeti ne\u0161to \u0161to sami nismo vidjeli i nakon toga donijeti druga\u010diju odluku sasvim je normalan dio \u017eivota.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ali postoji velika razlika izme\u0111u toga da smo ne\u0161to novo razumjeli i toga da smo se toliko prilagodili okolini da smo se udaljili od vlastite pozicije.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Tu razliku \u010desto prvo ne prepoznamo u svojim mislima. Prepoznamo je po tome kako nam je. Kad ka\u017eemo jedno, a u nama ostane ne\u0161to drugo<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Mo\u017eemo napraviti ono \u0161to su drugi o\u010dekivali i nakon toga biti nezadovoljni, iako si ne znamo sasvim objasniti za\u0161to. Mo\u017eemo postati razdra\u017eljivi. Mo\u017ee nas po\u010deti smetati osoba kojoj smo sami popustili. Mo\u017eemo osje\u0107ati tugu, frustraciju ili ljutnju koja djeluje pretjerano u odnosu na ono \u0161to se upravo dogodilo.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ponekad po\u010dinjemo zamjerati. Imamo osje\u0107aj da drugi od nas stalno ne\u0161to tra\u017ee, da se uvijek mi moramo prilago\u0111avati, da nitko ne razmi\u0161lja o tome \u0161to treba nama.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 class=\"p1\">Zdrava granica, zdrav ego<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">A pritom postoji neugodan dio pri\u010de koji nije uvijek lako vidjeti: mo\u017eda ljudima oko sebe nikada nismo jasno pokazali gdje je na\u0161a granica.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Rekli smo \u201emo\u017ee\u201c kada smo htjeli re\u0107i da nam ne odgovara. Rekli smo \u201esvejedno mi je\u201c kada nam nije bilo svejedno. Rekli smo \u201enije va\u017eno\u201c za ne\u0161to \u0161to nam je bilo va\u017eno. Pristali smo, a onda se ljutili \u0161to se od nas o\u010dekuje ono na \u0161to smo pristali.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ka\u017eemo \u201cda\u201d kad ne mislimo to, a \u201cne\u201d je jako rijetko.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Drugi ljudi tada reagiraju na ono \u0161to smo im pokazali, dok mi iznutra \u017eivimo ne\u0161to sasvim drugo. Nerijetko se svima svi\u0111amo u tom izdanju.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 class=\"p1\">Gradnja \u010ditavog \u017eivota<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">Ako se to ponavlja dovoljno dugo, problem vi\u0161e nije jedna odluka koju smo donijeli protiv sebe. Po\u010dinjemo graditi \u017eivot u kojem postoji sve ve\u0107i raskorak izme\u0111u onoga \u0161to osje\u0107amo i onoga \u0161to pokazujemo, izme\u0111u onoga \u0161to \u017eelimo i onoga \u0161to radimo.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">I takav raskorak ima cijenu.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Za\u0161to je ponekad tako te\u0161ko jednostavno re\u0107i \u0161to \u017eelimo?<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Razlozi mogu biti vrlo razli\u010diti.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Netko je rano nau\u010dio da je mir u ku\u0107i va\u017eniji od onoga \u0161to on osje\u0107a. Netko je dobivao vi\u0161e ljubavi i prihva\u0107anja kada je bio dobar, tih, razuman i nezahtjevan. Netko je nau\u010dio vrlo pa\u017eljivo pratiti raspolo\u017eenja ljudi oko sebe i prema njima odre\u0111ivati koliko prostora taj dan smije zauzeti.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Netko se boji konflikta. Netko te\u0161ko podnosi osje\u0107aj da je druga osoba njime razo\u010darana. Netko se osje\u0107a krivim \u010dim vlastitu potrebu stavi ispred tu\u0111e.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">A kod nekoga je prilago\u0111avanje toliko dugo bilo normalan na\u010din funkcioniranja da vi\u0161e ni ne izgleda kao prilago\u0111avanje. Olak\u0161anje osje\u0107a kad uspije zadovoljiti druge. Do tada je na oprezu, a ako treba sam u\u017eivati, ne zna \u0161to bi od sebe.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Takva osoba ne\u0107e nu\u017eno misliti: \u201eOpet sam napravila ono \u0161to drugi \u017eele.\u201c Mo\u017eda \u0107e iskreno misliti da joj je svejedno. Da nije va\u017eno. Da se mo\u017ee prilagoditi. Da nema smisla zbog sitnice raditi problem. I tek kada se takvih \u201esitnica\u201c nakupi dovoljno, pojavi se pitanje odakle toliko nezadovoljstvo.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 class=\"p1\">Neizgovorene potrebe ne nestaju<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">Jedna od te\u017eih posljedica dugotrajnog prilago\u0111avanja drugima jest to \u0161to s vremenom mo\u017eemo izgubiti jasno\u0107u vlastitog osje\u0107aja. Ne znamo vlastite potrebe. Kad pitam takve klijente o potrebama i \u017eeljama, jednostavno ne znaju. Drugi tako\u0111er ne znaju tko su oni.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ako svaki put kada ne\u0161to po\u017eelimo odmah po\u010dnemo razmi\u0161ljati \u0161to \u0107e na to re\u0107i partner, obitelj, prijatelji, kolege ili bilo tko \u010dije nam je mi\u0161ljenje va\u017eno, sve je te\u017ee uhvatiti onu prvu, vlastitu reakciju.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">\u0160to ja \u017eelim prije nego \u0161to po\u010dnem ra\u010dunati \u0161to \u017eele svi ostali? Kako se ja osje\u0107am prije nego \u0161to po\u010dnem obja\u0161njavati sebi kako bih se trebala osje\u0107ati? \u0160to bih napravio<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>kada na trenutak ne bih morao razmi\u0161ljati o tome ho\u0107e li netko moju odluku odobriti?<\/p><p class=\"p1\">To nisu pitanja koja podrazumijevaju da uvijek trebamo napraviti upravo ono \u0161to \u017eelimo. \u017divot s drugim ljudima to niti omogu\u0107uje niti bi takav odnos prema drugima imao smisla.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ali te\u0161ko mo\u017eemo napraviti stvaran kompromis ako ako sami sebi nismo jasni ili ne znamo izgovoriti potrebe, dok kompromis u kojem svjesno odustanemo od dijela svoje energije jer nam je ne\u0161to drugo va\u017enije mo\u017ee biti potpuno na\u0161a odluka.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 class=\"p1\">Izgradnja lju\u0161ture<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">Me\u0111utim, stalno odustajanje od sebe prije nego \u0161to smo sebi uop\u0107e priznali \u0161to \u017eelimo ne\u0161to je sasvim drugo.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">S vremenom se mijenja i na\u0161 odnos prema ljudima, jer kada dugo ne stojimo iza sebe, posljedice se vi\u0161e ne zadr\u017eavaju samo u nama.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Mo\u017eemo se po\u010deti udaljavati od ljudi. Postati manje otvoreni. Imati sve manje strpljenja za njihove potrebe. Tu\u0111e zahtjeve po\u010deti do\u017eivljavati kao pritisak \u010dak i onda kada mo\u017eda nisu tako zami\u0161ljeni. Burno reagirati na bilo koga, postati obrambeni ve\u0107 na samu mogu\u0107nost da \u0107e netko ne\u0161to tra\u017eiti od nas.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Mo\u017eemo imati osje\u0107aj da moramo \u010duvati sebe od drugih.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">I tu nastaje zanimljiv paradoks.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ponekad smo godinama popu\u0161tali upravo zato da bismo sa\u010duvali mir, odnose, prihva\u0107anje ili bliskost. A na kraju nas vlastito neizgovoreno nezadovoljstvo po\u010dne od tih istih ljudi udaljavati.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Te\u0161ko je ostati otvoren prema okolini kojoj zamjeramo \u0161to nam ne ostavlja dovoljno prostora ako ni sami taj prostor nikada nismo jasno zauzeli. O\u010dekujemo da nam drugi daju \u0161to nismo dali sebi.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2 class=\"p1\">Vratiti sebe u vlastitu jednad\u017ebu<\/h2><p class=\"p1\">Zauzeti se za sebe ne zna\u010di prestati uzimati druge u obzir.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Mo\u017eda je puno va\u017enije ponovno primijetiti sebe prije nego \u0161to donesemo odluku.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">\u0160to ja ovdje stvarno \u017eelim?<\/p><p class=\"p1\">\u0160to mi treba?<\/p><p class=\"p1\">\u0160to o ovome mislim prije nego \u0161to \u010dujem \u0161to bih trebao misliti?<\/p><p class=\"p1\">\u0160to sam bila sprean napraviti prije nego \u0161to sam po\u010deo zami\u0161ljati reakcije drugih?<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Kako se osje\u0107am nakon odluke koju sam donijeo?<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ponekad \u0107emo nakon svega i dalje odlu\u010diti napraviti kompromis. Ponekad \u0107emo svjesno staviti tu\u0111u potrebu ispred svoje jer nam je ta osoba ili situacija u tom trenutku va\u017enija. Ponekad \u0107emo nakon razgovora stvarno promijeniti mi\u0161ljenje.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Razlika je u tome jesmo li pritom ostali prisutni u vlastitoj odluci.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Jer kada stalno poku\u0161avamo prona\u0107i mjesto za sve druge, vrlo lako previdimo jednu osobu koja \u0107e sa svakom na\u0161om odlukom morati nastaviti \u017eivjeti- sebe.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Ovo se sve mo\u017ee iscjeliti. Na suptilnim razinama vrijeme br\u017ee te\u010de i kvalitetnim energetskim radom se brzo rije\u0161e stvari u na\u0161im suptilnim tijelima, dok fizi\u010dkoj razini treba podr\u0161ka terapeuta da sistem nau\u010di korak po korak da je sigurno birati sebe.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Sa\u0161a Momi\u0107<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-388f69c6 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"388f69c6\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35e1928b e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"35e1928b\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-71e25993 elementor-widget-mobile__width-inherit elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"71e25993\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div 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