{"id":5360,"date":"2024-09-08T16:01:26","date_gmt":"2024-09-08T14:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/?p=5360"},"modified":"2026-01-12T18:06:17","modified_gmt":"2026-01-12T17:06:17","slug":"to-see-oneself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/en\/spoznaje\/vidjeti-sebe\/","title":{"rendered":"To see oneself"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"5360\" class=\"elementor elementor-5360\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ce7f0f6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ce7f0f6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4b12c1b0\" data-id=\"4b12c1b0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-1468f1c5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1468f1c5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-15c0dc31\" data-id=\"15c0dc31\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ba7e52 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6ba7e52\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">To see oneself<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-198046fe elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"198046fe\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6b8ec740\" data-id=\"6b8ec740\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9243de4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9243de4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The organic feminine energy within us tells us that we have the right to feel everything. The masculine energy tells us to always put ourselves first; it gives us structure.<\/p><p>Having self-esteem means sticking to our core beliefs, setting boundaries, and maintaining clarity that protect our feelings.<\/p><p>It is, above all, a relationship with oneself, which is reflected in the relationships we choose to have. Self-esteem is both internal and external at the same time.<\/p><p>We are caring toward ourselves, and as we come to know our values, we make no compromises on them. This brings fulfillment and self-confidence.<\/p><p>Caring also means going against everything that is toxic within us and in our relationships, no matter how much it hurts.<\/p><p>A person without organic masculine and feminine principles within them will have no healthy criteria for anything, only impulses; they will engage in behaviors aimed at pleasing others, neglect their true needs, and tolerate a lack of respect from other people. These are the symptoms of synthetic masculine and feminine principles, which served to maintain the polarity of the matrix.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f67c95 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1f67c95\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" src=\"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-anntarazevich-7466999-1024x682.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-5338\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-anntarazevich-7466999-1024x682.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-anntarazevich-7466999-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-anntarazevich-7466999-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-anntarazevich-7466999-1536x1023.png 1536w, https:\/\/www.eartharian.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-anntarazevich-7466999.png 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-beacb63 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"beacb63\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Love doesn't mean losing self-respect; quite the opposite. Whoever loses self-respect in any form of relationship won't be able to have it with others either, and it's as if we're saying \u201cmy happiness doesn't matter.\u201d.<\/p><p>In relationships with narcissists and the like, we can only exist as long as we have no self-respect. They are extremely, extremely hard to change, and people usually cut them off the moment they gain even a little self-respect.<\/p><p>Don't ask others to treat you the way you don't treat yourself.<\/p><p>People without fundamental values that are right and natural will never have self-confidence.<\/p><p>As our Light grows, the solar plexus strengthens, and this brings awareness of who we are in our first two centers, the physical and emotional bases. Naturally, we won't be okay with things that used to be normal to us, and we'll speak clearly about what we're not okay with.<\/p><p>We must always know our identity outside of all relationships and be proud of ourselves.<\/p><p>~W<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-5dea6bd elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5dea6bd\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-208cf587\" data-id=\"208cf587\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6038dde7 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget-tablet__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6038dde7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tTags: \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1be64b93\" data-id=\"1be64b93\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43ae93c4 elementor-widget__width-auto elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget-tablet__width-auto elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"43ae93c4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Share:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13c2741d elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"13c2741d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The organic feminine energy within us tells us that we have the right to feel everything. 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