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In this reality, we learn through emotions. The energy of the Source arrives, and it is simple but not easy. It is a time of great changes, both within and without. The shift in vibration in our reality is “pressing” us to confront old limitations that many of us have carried through lifetimes. Gaia is the heart of creation and emotion, and here we learn most through relationships and emotions. Therefore, our relationships will be our main reflection. We cannot remain who we are, because our system is aligning with the planetary changes; we are one with Her.
Many of us are dissatisfied with the relationships in our lives right now. What was once a good relationship, due to abrupt changes, is no longer. At the very least, there's a feeling that relationships could be better.
But what we get stuck on is the answer to how to change it and understanding the root cause of the problem. It all starts with us. From experience, we know that some people begin by working on relationships superficially—changing their mindset or applying learned information—which can provide temporary relief, but then the problems return. It's a vicious cycle.
As abstract as it may sound, it's actually very physical. The manifestation of our inner states is nothing mysterious. We are energy, just like everything around us. We want change, but we fail to break out of our “enchanted” circles. The cause is our vibration, which is dictated by our beliefs, emotions, and the programs we've identified with. We carry traumas and energetic-level protections that, from an unconscious level, dictate our reactions in relationships.
Because of past traumas and fears, we follow certain behavioral patterns and literally provoke familiar states and emotions—no matter how far from ideal they are, they're our safe zone. This spills over into our relationships.
It's hard to let go of because it gives us the illusion of security, but the price of that “security” is losing ourselves, our inspiration, and ultimately we end up on autopilot, trapped by our own fears. The truth is actually the complete opposite: it's not security, and a shell—whether by ourselves or in a relationship—is not the solution.
We don't necessarily have to consciously feel those fears; it's enough that some feeling limits us from living in a way that truly aligns with us and our needs. It has become part of our character. Consequently, we choose relationships with people who keep us in our comfort zone, where at first there's peace and then the same problems keep arising, so we ask ourselves, "What am I doing wrong? Why is nothing getting better? Why am I going around in circles?"
Over time, we forget what makes us happy. We make compromises and adjustments.
Our system is capable of generating emotions to protect itself from repeating a trauma, so it can create feelings toward someone because it detects that a relationship with that person can help maintain a sense of security. If we feel secure in the archetype of the father or mother, even if our relationship with them was negative, the system will detect similarities in someone we meet and feel secure. Of course, patterns will emerge after some time, and we will have a repeat of the situation we had with our mother, father, or ex-partner.
Such a surge of “passion” can be overwhelming, followed by the shattering of the relationship's illusion. We don't want to leave it, even if it drains us, because the child within us feels secure while on the surface we suffer.
Likewise, if a relationship is positive and doesn't sufficiently feed these emotional miasmas that make us “need” someone, we will create negative states ourselves in order to provoke the situations we're familiar with. We're all too familiar with relationships where people constantly complain and talk about problems—an illusion of connection and understanding—or where there are constant arguments and tensions, and as soon as things calm down a bit, we fall back into the same cycle.
As an energy healer, I always work causally, based on the principle that everything starts with us and our relationship with ourselves. It's difficult to access unconscious states, but it's possible through energy work. Very unexpected things can become conscious, things that trace their roots back to early formative years, prenatal states we received from our mother, or even past lives.
Through such work, in which the integration of our essence-soul is mandatory, we see that beneath traumas and limiting programs there is not emptiness, but what we truly are. It is about awakening that essence. What is the point of change if it is not in alignment with our essence? We get to know it as it becomes present on a human level, and then we spontaneously release limitations because we have experienced something better.
What happens, then, is that we let go of everything we are no longer and allow ourselves to be who we are. That is the freedom within us that then reflects in our relationships. Spontaneity arises in giving what we are, which means we no longer “need” others; instead, we gain the freedom to love and connect naturally.
We are not, then, learning to build ourselves based on external information, but rather discovering who we truly are, and with that come our authentic emotions, independent of the mind, and our original abilities and needs.
Relationships also become free because as the parasitic “needing” wrapped in intense emotions diminishes, the accommodation and compromise regarding who we are disappears. Freedom is twofold, because as you do to yourself, you do to others.
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