Parasitism begins within ourselves. We are mostly unaware of this aspect. Through lives lived in duality, we are separated from our true vibration and from the organic energy of Life, so we unconsciously seek that Life through relationships. However, parasitism is not only a problem in relationships; it affects our personal lives, our social community, and everything around us.

Sense of connection

It often happens that we confuse parasitism with genuine connection to someone. Technically speaking, our parasitic energy bodies (in various forms) connect to another person's parasitic bodies. Such a connection at the beginning of a relationship feels pleasant, because we receive something we're missing from that person, just as they receive something from us.

However, over time both we and that person become exhausted. We remember that beginning and try to work on the relationship and so on. The problem is that you can't work on parasitic entities; they must be removed. For that to be possible, the soul—our most subtle part—must first be freed from all synthetic vibrations.

Parasitism in our relationships also affects us by keeping us stuck in old patterns and preventing change and our return to ourselves.

Roots of Parasitism

Parasitism is something that has surrounded us in duality since time immemorial. No individual is exempt from it. But why is that?

To understand this, first and foremost, we must understand the human need for connection. That need did not disappear with the advent of the synthetic. On the contrary, it has grown stronger because of the fear we have each experienced in our own way from separating ourselves from the Source and the natural vibrations in creation. And the greatest foundation of that fear was the separation from ourselves.

Our soul has its own natural vibration, its own natural spectra. But each of us has agreed with the Source (upon entering synthetic duality) on our own path. Had we remained exclusively in our natural vibration, that path would have been impossible, because our natural vibration was our only truth.

To each soul, the Source has, in accordance with its learning needs, allowed it to pass through the chosen path, and technically speaking (when we say technically speaking we mean observing structures on subtle levels with the help of codes we use in energy work, just as in physical reality we see the world around us with our eyes) this would mean that from the most subtle to the physical level we have entered into vibrations that are necessary for that learning, and which are not natural.

Learning and evolution

The separation from our true nature was not meant to be forever and eternally, but for a period of learning, that is, for some souls as we build spectrums we did not have, and for human souls, the isolated experiences of certain energy centers, because before that they were a complete whole in a unity that wanted the experience of separate spectrums, which was only possible through fragmentation.

Part of that journey was the creation of various programs, programming bodies, aspects, and identities, all accompanied by appropriate synthetic structures that serve as either a foundation or an extension for the aforementioned, while also acting as connecting frameworks for them.

The parasitism that has arisen among us is part of that story and one of the consequences of our separation from our true nature and the Source.

Separation from our true nature does not mean it has disappeared, but rather that our true nature (as well as what we have learned and the experiences we have acquired) is covered by the by-products of our learning in duality over countless lives.

The very basis of parasitism is linked to our aforementioned synthetic structures, which, without exception, operate in a parasitic manner.

How does the relationship of incompleteness work?

If there is no love, there can be no fluid connection that leads to expansion; instead, connections are formed on various forms of fear (and trauma within us remains as a form of fear, and all our synthetic structures seek nourishment—even some interests are based on fear; inspiration and interest are not the same).

Why is that a problem?

It's simple – love feeds love, fear feeds fear. Translated, when we continue to feed our parasitic structures (we've listed some of these forms), we only dig ourselves into the old vibration, and this manifests in our lives as an inability to make real changes (we can change jobs, but we can't escape the patterns playing out in our workplace; we change partners, but we have the same problems in the relationship again).

Most of us have trouble finding a way out of certain recurring problems, so we begin to see them as something impossible to solve, and they become frustrating.

Parasitism is not just a problem in relationships; it affects our personal lives, our social community, and everything around us.

From what has been briefly described here, you can see for yourselves why we cannot rid ourselves of parasitism overnight, but we must be aware that without detaching from all sorts of synthetic structures, we cannot access the acquired knowledge and experiences for which we chose to enter duality.

Refilling

Parasitic relationships, as a rule, often seem idyllic at first. We're missing some fragment in our lives, and then we “bump into” a person or people who fill exactly that missing part. At first, we feel more complete.

However, that “idyll” is short-lived. Parasitism is always mutual, and just as we lack something, so does the other person in the relationship. And they “complete” each other.

Why do we put quotation marks? Because it's not about natural mutual growth where both people grow in the relationship, but about giving part of your energy in exchange for the kind of energy you're missing. Over time, dissatisfaction, resentment, and frustration arise on both sides, and we begin to feel like we're losing ourselves in such a relationship.

Losing yourself

Because, in fact, we give off the energy that was strong in our duality and that is part of our personality, and that energy has no room to regenerate while we're in duality. The same thing happens on the other side.

Ultimately, unlike organic relationships in which we are already fully in contact with our true selves, we feel like we're fulfilling someone else's needs and merely going through the motions of that relationship or part of life.

We need to be aware that the other side isn't any different, but ending a relationship (of any kind) generally doesn't solve the problem, because our programs (to put it simply) keep repeating those patterns in relationships where there's room for them.

What can we do?

Among people, so-called parasitic cords form, connecting the incomplete parts of their beings. Through these cords, energy is taken and given. The cords link their energy centers, depending on which level they are connected at.

There are energy work processes that remove these parasitic threads. Although it's not a permanent solution, since the causes lie in our deep-seated beliefs and programs, it can allow a person to reclaim their energy and see themselves without parasitic attachment.

It can also see the relationship without any illusions or projections that create parasitic threads.

If someone goes through the soul liberation process, it opens up space for much deeper work on subconscious beliefs, aspects, and programs that pull their threads from deep within. From that point, the person can begin the return to themselves in their wholeness, thereby ending all parasitic needs. It is the process of integrating our soul, through which it bestows wholeness upon our human life.

And relationships become an independent and authentic exchange of love in freedom.